Proof that there is a conspiracy designed to stop your fighting abuse?

There is no conspiracy by the government to prevent help to abuse victims. This implies that the government is purposely allowing good people to come to harm. I think the real reason our social services suck sometimes is incompetence and stupidity and mismanagement. Social services are mismanaged because they are underfunded, understaffed, and sometimes staffed by people who are so burned out and critical that they don't care anymore or by people who are so overworked they can't deal with everything. In other words, it isn't conspiracy but mismanagement. It's not intensional. I"m sorry about what happened to you and I know you are angry (rightfully so), but you are also in a good position to make changes. Join organizations that care about women's rights and lobby the government. Work at a crisis center. You would also be a good person to mentor other abuse victims. You can give others the help and support that you were never given.